A term describing how all children are dystrophically conditioned in childhood to a specific array of wound-based and strategic orientations toward reality unconsciously possessed by all parents, out of which the child could not choose, and of which parents are in denial.
Feeling(s)
The tertiary expression of Eichor, the secondarily arising and expressed versions of core emotion that impart important information about their actual source.
Gender confidence
The healed dynamic of Innate Teen Despair.
God
A short word to describe all three Aspects of both Yin- and Yang-based Divine Being, the Allness, Nondual, and Maker Aspects.
Harmonic Emotion
Eichor in resonance with no refractance (pleasing or painful).
Head of Household (HOH)
The operational center and expressor of the Authentic Self.
Holding space
The ability to create an energetic container to allow a process to safely and efficaciously move and complete.
I
A moment-to-moment precipitation of the ego’s sense of itself as the lens that focuses experience, an ‘iceberg made of sea water’ of the ever-fluent ego.
Inhere
To abide within any Context of Being as an unavoidable Content in Being.
Innate Goodness
The healed dynamic of the Agony of Self-insufficiency.
Innate Teen Despair
A subpersonal nexus of pain in an adult that is the end result of the non-completion of teenage gender-based development, based in the non-completion of the being-based childhood phase prior to it, both due to overt or hidden deficits in a person’s emotional body caused by inadequate and dystrophic parenting.
Integrity
The ability to arrive at a personal conclusion and make an action which holds the self both responsible and accountable for an appropriate and emotively mature moral response to any situation.
Intention
Any choice, action, or outcome we visualize or desire to create prior to taking the actual steps to do so.
Internut
No explanation needed. But if needed, the dumbed-down blog-bloated devolution of literacy and celebration of the banal driven by the neurosis of a global mass culture to compensate for self-isolation and unconscious self-unworth based in mistaking virtual-based collectivism for reality-based connectivism, perception for factuality, and celebrity for identity.
Interdependence
The form of inhabiting relational space from a seat of emotively mature being.
Isness
A way to describe a certain quality or domain of the Nondual Aspect of Divine Being wherein there is neither any contradictive energy nor polarized positionality.
I-spacer
The embodiment of a non-defensed form of overall personality schema in emotively mature expression that is both energetically facile and emotively porous.
Link-to-cocreate
The central governing dynamic of emotively mature interdependent relational space mature phase of relationship characterized by the willingness to have and serve the love of the bond firmly founded on healthy grounds.
Logo Christa
The Child-Aspect of Divine Being, literally the true First-Born of Maker and Mater, the dynamical Everythingness that is Parent to all elements of Creation including humanity, possessed of equal valences of Yang-Logo (Wisdom) and Yin-Christa (Love).
Love
The fundamental root of human being and the essential nature of existence, That Which animates and binds all things, abiding in us as a fractal of our Maker, Its Source.
Luvena
The emoto-spiritually mature archetypal embodiment of the Sacred Feminine.
Magical Guidance
The healed dynamic of the Premier Sentinel.
Maker
The Yang-Aspect of Divine Being, the 'Grandfather' of humanity
Mater
The Yin-Aspect of Divine Being, the 'Grandmother' of humanity
Management
The healed form of the Control Subpersona characterized by the ability to run one’s life while free of the repression of all emotive truths, a state of self-sovereignty in service of the manifestation of healthy empowering emotional states.
Medication
Any fuel, including those supported by a dystrophic society or religion, that supplies an addictive need or urge to give ourselves some false form of love or assurance we didn’t receive in the dependent phases of childhood.
Me-spacer
A deeply ensconced defense-based form of overall personality schema in emotively immature expression that is energetically facile but emotively challenged.
Mental Body
The secondary sub-aspect of the emotional body mediated by the physical brain associated with all dualistically-configured thoughts and images.
Metapersonal Love
The direct experience of Eichor (Objectless Love)
Metascendent / Metascendence / Metascendental
Referring to moving from shallower tiers of consciousness to deeper tiers within an emotional essence based world-view. Replaces the terms transcendent/transcendence/transcendental from outworn world-views.
Meta-conditional Love
A personally-embodied emotively mature expression of Universal Love.
Mind
A term to describe all the dualistic operations of the mental body.
Mitgift
An overt self-stagnative or self-destructive expression or behavior in an adult of a hidden emotive nexus in a parent the adult child unconsciously carries for the parent.
Motivation
The largely unconscious reason we possess a specific conscious intention.
Mutual co-arising
A way to describe how the mental body-mediated aspect of self arises only as a function of stimulational reactivity to all the objects of experience.
Narcissism
The governing dynamic of egotism, unconditional love, and selflessness, wherein emotive deficits from childhood seek their fulfillment in adult relational space.
Need-to-suffer loop
A situation where one subpersonal aspect of a person requires a repetitive pattern of suffering to define itself and feel alive.
Nonduality
The central feature of the Yin Aspect of Divine Being representing That Which contexts, pre-exists, and capacitates the arisement of all the contents of consciousness.
Oneness
One way to describe a certain quality or domain of the Yin Aspect of Divine Being wherein there is no fundamental distinction between discernable aspects of experience.
Ontomenal level of reality
That aspect of Divine Being associated with Maker.
Openness to change
The healed dynamic of the Provider Sentinel.
Original ignorance
The root cause of human suffering according to hinduism.
Original illusion
The root cause of human suffering according to the world-view of buddhism.
Original sin
The root cause of human suffering according to the world-view of paulianity.
Other-based Relationality
The neurotic codependent transaction of wound-based relatedness between two persons, neither of whom possess an emotively mature personal seat of being, two crippled halves in supplementary unwholeness, inevitably utilizing sacrifice, unconditional love, and altruism in the context of unconscious closed hearts of defensed safety.
Outcome
The intended benefit or result we seek by means of action.
PQ
Physical Quotient, the degree to which a person’s physical body emerges and expresses from a mature Emotional body, and thus belonging to one’s Authentic Self and not Strategic Self, such that one is neither over- or under-attentive to physical states of being, resulting in an overall health at the cellular level so that the body is neither underweight nor overweight.
Paradigm
A lens, world-view, or picture of reality through which we perceive, define, and experience the world of self and other.
Paulianity
The real name for christianity, a religion based in the teachings of St. Paul.
Personal Love
The focused experience of Metapersonal Love for another.
Personality
The idiosyncratic presentation of selfhood as it interfaces expressively with others, the specific downstream qualities of emoto-energetic adaptation that have consciously and unconsciously formed to get what we want and need from others, and to protect ourselves from the pain of what we do not receive in that regard.
Personhood
The dharmic path of emotional body enlightenment in Theohumanity that targets the existential Terrors of Being, resulting in an attainment far beyond any psychological state of self-actualization.
Phenomenal level of reality
That aspect of Divine being associated with the relational space carnative consciousness has with both matter and dualistic experience of all kinds.
Physical body
The cellular precipitative and tertiary version of the individual soul in carnate expressions downstream to both the emotional and mental bodies.
Power
The wound-based outer use and expression of inner strength as a compensation for powerlessness in service of providing a false dynamic for a strategic self-image.
Prana
The energetic expression of Eichor in living systems.
Projection
The unconscious transfer of aspects of an individual’s inner reality onto another person believed to be possessed by the other person and not the self.
Refractance
The energetic dissonances between Eichor, Emotion, and Feeling caused by fear-based misalignments between conscious and unconscious emotive states and their expressed attitudes and behaviors.
Relational space
The overt and covert dynamics, energies, and architecture of all the domains of co-created human intercourse.
Resompathy
The ultimate result of emotive porosity in a self wherein the ability of a person to feel what another is feeling while they are feeling it occurs so deeply, that the other can feel that the person is actually feeling what they are feeling while they are feeling it.
Resonance
A synergistic relationship between two energy states.
Rise-to-negotiate
A remedial phase to heal codependent relationship wherein both partners are willing to not have the bond while speaking their fullest truths in every moment.
Riskability
The healed form of the Depression Subpersona characterized by the strength to do what we fear to feel and do in life.
Sacred Self
A term describing how both the sense and essence of individual selfhood is intrinsically real, eternal, and spiritual of and to itself.
Sacred Union
The intimate relational space created by an Adamus and a Luvena.
Sagehood
The dharmic path of mental body enlightenment in Theohumanity that targets the existential fear of Not-Being, resulting in an attainment far beyond buddhism’s definition.
Sainthood
The dharmic path of etheric body enlightenment in Theohumanity that targets the existential terror of Non-Being, resulting in an attainment far beyond what is called religious redemption in paulianity or god-realization in hinduism.
Schizophrenia
A state of consciousness almost always caused by the inability to build effective defenses against emotional body wounding that undermines functional participation in the nominal forms of personal and societal human relational space.
Self
The expressive seat of personal being of soul, that which you experience as you with the six senses in the phenomenal world.
Self-acceptance
A state of neutral positivity that naturally and authentically only arises when deep wells of unconscious shame and guilt are de-repressed, processed, and healed as the healed form of the Shame Subpersona is finally characterized by a state of neutral positivity that one is whole and lovable within the whole range of personal strengths and weaknesses.
Self-based Relationality
In one domain, the healed dynamic of the subpersona of Existential Aloneness Panic, and in another, the description of the interdependent transaction of health-based relatedness between two persons, both of whom possess an emotively mature personal seat of being, two wholes in complementary engagement utilizing respect, conditional love, and healthy needs in the context of consciously non-defensed open-hearted vulnerability.
Self-centered
The governing dynamic of an emotively immature state of narcissistic egotism that is always a compensation for the lack of a real and emotively mature seat of personal being.
Self-centering
The governing dynamic of an emotively mature state of non-narcissistic egoism.
Self-respect
The long-term reputation one builds with oneself for the ability to embody competency, integrity, and authenticity in all the domains of life.
Selflessness
An illusion with no referent in the human condition that self can have intentions, actions or outcomes without any agenda or self-agency.
Selfish
An adjective describing the emotively immature state of self-centered egotism that can often mask as selflessness.
Selfist
An adjective describing the emotively mature state of self-centering egoism.
Self-esteem
A deep and abiding sense of non-narcissistic egoistic self-love rooted in emotive maturity characterized by the loss of strategic forms of self-image.
Self-love
The focused experience of Personal Love for oneself as capacity to non-narcissistically embrace all aspects of ourselves as worthy of love.
Sentinel
The architect and holder of the Strategic self, the part of self that developed in childhood to protect self from how the dystrophic parentally-imparted version of reality never gave us the experience of someone feeling our emotions while we were feeling them.
Sentinel Premier
The third tier subpersonal aspect of emotional body defenses that uses truth-in-service-of-inauthentic-being dynamics to block an open-hearted experience of human life.
Sentinel Provider
The first tier subpersonal aspect of emotional body inner defenses that is the initial version of wound-based self-authority with all the projections and rejections inherent in relational space and as such, the supplier of all medicational patterns that cover the woundedness.
Sentinel Punisher
The second tier subpersonal aspect of emotional body defenses that is the source of judgments and criticisms about others and ourselves.
Serve-to-receive
Another term to describe altruism, a form of codependence characterized by the strategic and unconscious provision of love or service to others as a neurotic means to receive love for the self.
Shadow Archetype
A wound- or strategic based inauthentic expression of a Yin or Yang dynamism in a man or woman.
Shrink-to-fit
A state of editing ourselves by not telling one’s full truth in a situation or staying in unfulfilling and non-nourishing codependent relationships as an unconscious drive to strategically receive love and validation from others to make up for the lack of an emotively mature seat of being.
Six physical senses
Hearing, taste, sight, touch, smell, and thinking.
Soul or Soulstream
An indestructible emoto-spiritual self-aware individuated subcomponent of consciousness, the reservoiric sum of all incarnative experience, and expressing through and as our ego- and body-based humanity.
Spiritual Attainment
The mere experience of certain benchmark aspects of consciousness without any prior embodiment of human emotional maturity.
Spirituality
A way of experiencing consciousness and life that sees all human activity arising and moving through a greater context and meaning not readily apparent to the six senses.
Spiritual maturity
The translation of the certain benchmark aspects of consciousness into permanent states of embodiment allowed only by the prior embodiment of human emotional maturity.
SQ
Spiritual Quotient, the degree Sagehood and Sainthood embodiment has opened in a person.
Strategic Self
See ‘Sentinel.’
Strength
The nature and expression of inner self-worth and value that needs no outer compensation or any kind of display.
Submission
The consciously chosen surrender to another person or energy while irrationally and unconsciously orienting oneself as a victim to that person or energy, always accompanied by an inner resistance that compensates for the victimhood.
Subpersonal
A real fractal-version of self living beneath the conscious awareness fixated at an arrested level of emotional development and oriented around a specific nexus of wounded emotion grounded in a particular universal sequence of shadow evolution and development.
Subpersonal Anxiety
An emotionally fixated aspect of self born as the fear-based anticipation of any future hurt, expressing as an emotionally contractive-reactive relationship with the future.
Subpersonal Control
An emotionally fixated aspect of self-mastery in service of the repression of negative emotions comprised of cognitive or behavioral-related overlays of emotive wounding unrecognized by the family-of-origin or society that have never been given permission or vehicle to freely express.
Subpersonal Depression
An emotionally fixated aspect of self which emerges as the result of the repression of hurt, anxiety, and rage via the control mechanism, creating the inability to having personal needs and wants fulfilled, no matter what we do to try to get them met.
Subpersonal Hurt
An emotionally fixated aspect of the self created as the initial result of the collisions between a child’s and parent’s realities, where resompathic forms of validation and love do not occur in the absence of the child being unable to feel their parent feel what they were feeling while they were feeling it.
Subpersonal Rage
An emotionally fixated aspect of self generated as a result of not being given permission or outlet to express accumulated hurt or anxiety.
Subpersonal Shame
An emotionally fixated aspect of self that occurs as a complex emotive theme of the self-judgment that somehow we are at fault for not being able to get our needs met, in effect a child blaming themselves for the failure of parents.
Supra-phenomenal level of reality
That aspect of Divine Being associated with the relational space consciousness has with dynamisms of Reality not readily apparent to the six senses.
Surrender
The consciously chosen cessation of resistance to some aspect of life, not a person, which self sees as having more long-term benefit than short-term discomfort.
Surrogacy
A pivotal and specific intervention in EBE for a de-repressed subpersona that imparts a deep experience of what should have emotively and energetically happened in relational space with parents but didn’t.
Sympathy
The ability of a person to feel what another person is feeling even though the self has not had that particular emotive experience in their life.
Tantrum
The expression of a child trying to communicate to a parent ‘I can’t feel you feel my hurt and anxiety!’ or ‘Stop filling the space with your needs and let me have mine!’ in the only emoto-energetic language the child is able to utilize.
Theohumanity
The first emoto-spiritual paradigm in history that ushers in the Bright Age, offering that we are emotional beings in essence, that we must take proactive responsibility for the contents of our unconscious and that the individualized self or personal domain of being is real, sacred, and spiritual in itself, and as such mandate its inclusion in an overall dharma to embody a radical new definition of the ultimate state of human consciousness.
Thought
A secondary, symbolic representation of primary emotional experience of reality that is registered in words, concepts, or images, and held accumulatively as our capacity of mind.
Transcendence
Any from of psychospiritual medicative premise or process that denies or marginalizes the sovereign intrinsic reality and goodness of the individual self, its right to exist, and its unavoidable primacy as the foundation for all mature spiritual attainment.
Transference
As an adult, the projection of unresolved and wounded family-of-origin dynamics onto an authority figure or leader of some kind, such as a boss, guru, or therapist.
Trust
The healed form of the Anxiety Subpersona characterized by a state of consciousness assured that life will naturally bring minimum versions of that which we healthily need and want.
Truth
One’s personal relative assessment of the quality or expression of any person or life situation based in the value system of one’s specific paradigm of human life.
Truth-telling
The ability to courageously tell one’s truth in the face of the real or imagined anticipation of rejection or non-approval.
Unconditional love
The medicative and neurotic utilization of Universal Love in the context of a false notion with no referent in the human condition that is completely unconscious and in denial of the ever-present hidden self-based agendae always at play in all human interaction.
Universal Love
A domain of Love wherein a meta-conditional seat of transactional closeness characterizes heart-based relational space, in resonance with a feature of the Yin Aspect of Divine Being.
Victimhood
A helpless/hopeless orientation to reality sourced in the family cult that prevents embodiment of the sovereignty of the individual self covered over by resistance, a strategic self-image, or the false power of a compensatory form of self-efficacy.
Vulnerability
The healed form of the Hurt Subpersona characterized by the ability to be so healed of conscious and unconscious defenses that one is able to be emotively and energetically open to all the ranges of human experience.
We-spacer
A deeply ensconced defense-based form of overall personality schema in emotively immature expression that is emotively facile but energetically challenged.
Will
How Love moves Itself through Itself.
